Mediums refer to psychics who channel spirits so as to pass on information to a customer. A reading with a medium is performed over the phone or in person. During the reading, the medium will frequently go into a trance state as he communicates with the spirits. If you’re considering seeing a psychic medium, there are things you should do first, some of which are explained here.
Review your present state of grief. Are you still deep in grief? Wishing there was still a way to restore your loved one? Angry or depressed? Overly sad or tearful? Be honest with yourself and if yes, seek group or individual counseling to help you find more solid ground before going to a medium. No medium can assure that a loved one will show up during a session; however, having that session before having processed the loss can result in undue expectations.
Select the right psychic medium. There are all kinds of psychic mediums. Ask family and friends for recommendations. If you are curious about renowned psychic mediums, check their websites. Even if you cannot snag a session, they will probably give an index of more accessible mediums. Some psychic mediums host ”spirit circles” where they work with a big number of participants and provide readings at random. You are not assured one but it is a great way to observe how the entire thing works. It may also take some pressure off any of your expectations. A private session assures you reading and safeguards your privacy. Telephone readings can be completely legit. It does not appear to affect the psychic medium’s process and can at times leave the client feeling more secure knowing the medium could not read your physical cues. Determine what is good for you before choosing a psychic medium.
Spend time thinking about the person you love. Converse with him/her in your head, inform them you will see a psychic medium, and request them to appear. Have a psychic medium describe the process in advance. During the session, remain relaxed and open so you can give the details a psychic medium needs.
Have low expectations and an open mind. Some people have a good first experience and never go back, feeling they heard all they wished to. If your first session is not fulfilling, try it once more with another psychic medium. Ask whether you can take notes or record the session. So much info that’s hard to recall later comes through and some of it might not resonate at the moment but could make sense later. Not all psychic mediums are great. This often leads to a reading that does not resonate. Feel free to communicate your doubts during the session and tell them if they say something that does not sound right. And if you do not get a good reading, do not be discouraged but try again with someone else.
You could be too anxious that you are seeing a psychic medium for the first time. Ensuring you’re not deeply grieving, choosing the right medium, thinking about a loved one, having an open mind and keeping your expectations low can help you get the most out of a session with a psychic medium.